Trans girl here. You’re not hurting me or my community by saying she has a giant square face, and carefully curating your insults doesn’t help my community either.
Y’all making mountains out of molehills. Not activism. Stop. Lame.
you literally just ENTIRELY made up words, put them in my mouth, and then accused me of transphobia. I said NOTHING of the sort. And you fucking know that. To the vast fucking cheers of 39 likes, too. The fuck?
insulting trans women's apppearence with characterists that are considered manly/masculine is something you prob dont wanna do. i accept that you definitely did not mean say something transphobic or you wouldn't be defensive about it but yeah. thats how the comment read to most people hence why it was downvoted.
yeah realistically speaking it wasn't the BEST phrasing, and i can accept that. Still kinda frustrating to get accused of a bunch of shit, lol. Won't happen again :P
"lib" = not wanting to insult a person aesthetically instead of their bad ideas? and here I keep hearing libs insult Trump's appearance instead of actual criticisms, and also libs main accusation against Bernie was aesthetic as well...
Lmao homie you are SEETHING rn. From here it seems like you're standing at the base of an empty hill shooting at the top. I made one comment about your problematic insult and didn't respond to any of your rage replies and you said I was dying on a hill.
it's a gray zone; squareness, especially of the face/jaw, is a masculine feature. it's understandable that it could be taken as transphobia even if that wasn't your intent. this thread is too much, though.
I feel that "square jawed" is a masculine feature, but square faced isn't? And then there's squarehead, an old (non gendered) ethnic slur for Scandinavians.
I'm not sure what or why you're accusing me of things I did not do.
And that parentheses implies that you think i'm somehow dogwhistling, How did you arrive at that conclusion? I'm not sure i like words being put in my mouth and i certainly don't like someone purposefully misinterpreting my words and twisting them to make me look far worse than i am. Plus, I have ZERO clue who this charlotte clymer clown is- Apparently she's trans.
Why am I getting accused of transphobia when i have never seen this person in my life? How would i be expected to know her status as trans?
Am I really getting 25 downvotes for not IMMEDIATELY googling any blue check before insulting them? Jeez. Not like i used a slur, or anything along those lines. Just said she had a square head.
Eh, it's honestly smarter to not attack someone's appearence most of the time. It's a bit lazy and a bit shitty and gets more lazy and shitty when directed at women because women are still more likely to be judged on their appearence than men. You're in a space with an awful lot of libs and at least a dozen or so true leftists most of whom are feminist to some degree.
Probably better to think about your audience, engage in a bit of self criticism and move on than complain about downvotes like it's reddit or something.
There you go putting words in my mouth again. I'm getting pretty tired of you lobbing false accusations and moving the goalposts when you are proven incorrect. Whatever has gone wrong in your life to cause you to lead such a hateful presence, I truly hope it gets better for you soon.
She isn't putting words in your mouth by calling you a misogynist. I'd expect people to realize that they can internalize misogyny and perpetuate it without meaning to but apparently I can't.
We all say dumb shit every once in a while and get called out for it, stop acting like you're being wounded.
Ackchyually everyone is cringe here. I am a true centrist. We shouldn't insult people's appearance and should avoid misogynistic insults. Because misogyny. But to expect people to know she's trans so you're being transphobic is crazy. Idk I guess that teaches us that the stuff we say can come accross very differently.
I wonder how quickly someone will call me a wokescold for saying you shouldn't call women bitches.
man i hate this squarefaced bitch
I can think of 1mil ways to insult Charlotte Clymer without saying she has a manly square jaw
Trans girl here. You’re not hurting me or my community by saying she has a giant square face, and carefully curating your insults doesn’t help my community either.
Y’all making mountains out of molehills. Not activism. Stop. Lame.
She is also a blocky refrigerator of a woman
you literally just ENTIRELY made up words, put them in my mouth, and then accused me of transphobia. I said NOTHING of the sort. And you fucking know that. To the vast fucking cheers of 39 likes, too. The fuck?
insulting trans women's apppearence with characterists that are considered manly/masculine is something you prob dont wanna do. i accept that you definitely did not mean say something transphobic or you wouldn't be defensive about it but yeah. thats how the comment read to most people hence why it was downvoted.
yeah realistically speaking it wasn't the BEST phrasing, and i can accept that. Still kinda frustrating to get accused of a bunch of shit, lol. Won't happen again :P
Chapo.chat has been infected by libs. Such a stupid tiny hill they are eager to die on. I see now why Matt hates his fans so much.
"lib" = not wanting to insult a person aesthetically instead of their bad ideas? and here I keep hearing libs insult Trump's appearance instead of actual criticisms, and also libs main accusation against Bernie was aesthetic as well...
Idk why people think I'm dying on a hill lol
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Lmao homie you are SEETHING rn. From here it seems like you're standing at the base of an empty hill shooting at the top. I made one comment about your problematic insult and didn't respond to any of your rage replies and you said I was dying on a hill.
where did i say manly? I said she had a square head. Nothing about jawline, nothing about manly, nothing about transphobia.
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it's a gray zone; squareness, especially of the face/jaw, is a masculine feature. it's understandable that it could be taken as transphobia even if that wasn't your intent. this thread is too much, though.
I feel that "square jawed" is a masculine feature, but square faced isn't? And then there's squarehead, an old (non gendered) ethnic slur for Scandinavians.
lol i forgot about that one
Yeah, I honestly had to Google it to remember what ethnic group it was for!
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The intent wasn't transphobia. But you won't believe me.
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I'm not sure what or why you're accusing me of things I did not do.
And that parentheses implies that you think i'm somehow dogwhistling, How did you arrive at that conclusion? I'm not sure i like words being put in my mouth and i certainly don't like someone purposefully misinterpreting my words and twisting them to make me look far worse than i am. Plus, I have ZERO clue who this charlotte clymer clown is- Apparently she's trans.
Why am I getting accused of transphobia when i have never seen this person in my life? How would i be expected to know her status as trans?
Am I really getting 25 downvotes for not IMMEDIATELY googling any blue check before insulting them? Jeez. Not like i used a slur, or anything along those lines. Just said she had a square head.
Eh, it's honestly smarter to not attack someone's appearence most of the time. It's a bit lazy and a bit shitty and gets more lazy and shitty when directed at women because women are still more likely to be judged on their appearence than men. You're in a space with an awful lot of libs and at least a dozen or so true leftists most of whom are feminist to some degree.
Probably better to think about your audience, engage in a bit of self criticism and move on than complain about downvotes like it's reddit or something.
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There you go putting words in my mouth again. I'm getting pretty tired of you lobbing false accusations and moving the goalposts when you are proven incorrect. Whatever has gone wrong in your life to cause you to lead such a hateful presence, I truly hope it gets better for you soon.
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Your original comment also mentioned transphobia. We can all see it.
I agree with you, hate when people turn to meaningless insults
You called me a transphobe. You were proven wrong. You then called me a misogynist. Again, wrong. What next?
She isn't putting words in your mouth by calling you a misogynist. I'd expect people to realize that they can internalize misogyny and perpetuate it without meaning to but apparently I can't.
We all say dumb shit every once in a while and get called out for it, stop acting like you're being wounded.
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Ackchyually everyone is cringe here. I am a true centrist. We shouldn't insult people's appearance and should avoid misogynistic insults. Because misogyny. But to expect people to know she's trans so you're being transphobic is crazy. Idk I guess that teaches us that the stuff we say can come accross very differently.
I wonder how quickly someone will call me a wokescold for saying you shouldn't call women bitches.