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Are they meant to be used like any other set of pronouns? What's the possessive form?
Mods take this down if it's too close to JAQing off territory.
Are they meant to be used like any other set of pronouns? What's the possessive form?
I tacked comrade/them on at first because I thought it was cute and also felt like a solidarity thing to stand with trans and enbies folks. Idk if that is ok or not. More recently I'm starting to dive a bit more into gender as a social construct and how it's bullshit. I'm sort of wondering if it's ok to switch to they/them though even though I mostly identity and present as cis male. But I don't really care about my gender much anymore. Idk, I don't wanna feel like I'm stepping on toes.
Yeah I guess I feel a similar way tbh, I'm perfectly comfortable with taking masculinity and keeping the bits I like while discarding the toxic crap so I feel solidly cis. But at the same time, if someone theys me I don't mind, I know a few people that use they/them as the default for everyone and I can kinda get behind that (so long as it's corrected for those who don't wish to use they/them pronouns of course).
Yeah my default for others is they/them unless specified or I am corrected. I don't really connect masculinity to my maleness and if I am honest, I'm actually a pretty feminine male anyway. I just present as and am assumed to be a male. And like I said I am cis as far as I am aware.