https://www.mic.com/articles/85201/the-surprising-way-the-netherlands-is-helping-its-disabled-have-sex

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nina_de_Vries

Idk what the fuck Twitter is on about because I've been aggressively avoiding it but the Netherlands has had a formal program supporting disabled people who otherwise have great difficulty in finding satisfying intimate and sexual relationships to get some nookie. It's been a thing for years, it's been widely debated and argued about, there are professionals and advocates and everything.

Read up, I guess.