stigsbandit34z [they/them] to neurodiverse • 16 hours ago

I face a bit of a reckoning. Is it bad that at this point in my life, my closest friends are people I met when I was in my teens?

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I face a bit of a reckoning. Is it bad that at this point in my life, my closest friends are people I met when I was in my teens?

stigsbandit34z [they/them] to neurodiverse • 16 hours ago

I would LOVE to be able to branch out, but as much as I’ve tried in my almost 30 years, it always ends as nothing but a wet fart. Most of the people who I do vibe with (and who tolerate me) exist in the form of potential romantic interests and it just doesn’t work out. I can’t find that “line” of platonicness and romance. From that perspective then, I guess it makes sense why my friendships/commections ceased formation in my adolescence. Doesn’t make it suck any less though lolololol

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stigsbandit34z [they/them]
hexagon
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15 hours ago
My irl ML friend moved last year

Only DSA comrade I routinely agreed with. Them our DSA group died lol

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  I feel lonelier in a big crowd of Americans than I do at home by myself
  
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    hexagon
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    15 hours ago
    Same, 1-2 is my happy place
    
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