For you and @booty@hexbear.net, since it's easy to miss, this has been added to the post:
Sangria was Alaskaball. Banning themself was a bit. Furthermore, they were unaware that fella was a gendered term, as was I. Yes, they did effectively misgender themselves if you consider fella to be a gendered term. They don't consider it to be. Therefore, non-issue on this point.
For what it's worth, I'm in the mod chat and I didn't learn what was going on until a few minutes ago.
Honestly I'd say your aggression was entirely understandable. I came to the exact same conclusion before the other staff told me what the hell was going on.
For you and @booty@hexbear.net, since it's easy to miss, this has been added to the post:
For what it's worth, I'm in the mod chat and I didn't learn what was going on until a few minutes ago.
Understood. No issues there then, and I apologize if my comment on the matter was a lil too aggro.
One concern dealt with... About three dozen to go?
Honestly I'd say your aggression was entirely understandable. I came to the exact same conclusion before the other staff told me what the hell was going on.