• AddLemmus@lemmy.ml
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    2 days ago

    "Being bad at stuff" is also so selective. The other kids are not expected to be two years ahead in math, but I am expected to be able to sit perfectly still for 4 hours and pay attention in an oxygen depleted room. Everybody has to have this nearly exact same skillset.

    It's not what society needs, not even what the industry needs in the workforce, but that is most convenient for the teachers.

    • oldfart@lemm.ee
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      1 day ago

      That low oxygen training will come handy when you work on a spaceship or a submarine. Training the spacemen of tomorrow!

    • ProfessorOwl_PhD [any]
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      2 days ago

      that is most convenient for the teachers

      Nope, also extremely inconvenient to them. It's only actually convenient for a small selection of neurotypicals with ideal or near ideal home lives/parent involvement, while nearly every other kid benefits from basic adhd accomodations like fidget toys or being allowed to sit/lie wherever to do their work. We haven't made any significant progress on teaching since the victorian era.

  • 0ops@lemm.ee
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    2 days ago

    I remember when I was really, really young I hadn't figured out all the nuanced definitions of the word "bad". At some point (I think it was in Sunday school) I told an adult that I put cereal in the fridge once. They said that was bad. So then I was all like "fuck, I guess I'm going to hell"

  • Eyck_of_denesle@lemmy.zip
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    3 days ago

    Etiquette one I don't agree. It's just being respectful and mindful. You will acknowledge it once you see the absolute lack of it.

    • 7bicycles [he/him]
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      3 days ago

      I don't think this means "Etiquette (please and thank you)", I think this means "Etiquette (look at this rube using his crab fork to grab pasta, what a yokel)"

    • Lussy [any, hy/hym]
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      3 days ago

      Yeah makes you wonder the real meaning behind what they’re saying.