"If someone we perceive as female doesn't conform to this, we must shun and bully them until they perform feminity to our exact standard."
For some reason the status quo is really obsessed with policing feminity but also the west is so cool and values freedom and individualism, right?
gender = trauma
Gendertrauma - a game where several people are put in a submarine. Each of them are trans, but told everyone else is cis and trying to clock the trans person.