"If someone we perceive as female doesn't conform to this, we must shun and bully them until they perform feminity to our exact standard."
For some reason the status quo is really obsessed with policing feminity but also the west is so cool and values freedom and individualism, right?
Errrrrrgggghhhhhhhhhh this makes my bones hurt. Internalised misogyny (mine just to be clear) go brrrrrr.
I took me ages to give myself a break from expectations of feminity and even then I still know I struggle with subconious internalised sexism. I hate the patriarchy so much.
Also hard read on men:
woman = big booba unless she is small and petite then no booba is fine (like that isn't just closet ephebophilia)