BDSM is using alternative methods or building upon standard sources of sexual pleasure. Properly done and communicated, there are codewords, rules of engagement, communities, and classes to ensure nobody gets hurt (too badly). After what differentiates kink from abuse can be summed up with SSC (safe, sane, consensual).
BDSM is using alternative methods or building upon standard sources of sexual pleasure. Properly done and communicated, there are codewords, rules of engagement, communities, and classes to ensure nobody gets hurt (too badly). After what differentiates kink from abuse can be summed up with SSC (safe, sane, consensual).