Getting to know a meta more closely? Finally attending that local polyam meetup you've been eyeing for the last 2 years? Coming out to your family about your other partners?

It's a new year and I thought it would be fun to share some goals we have and some things were looking forward to in 2025! Maybe some folks here have some experiences they can share with you about your goals or excitements for the year and we can all help each other continue to grow!

This is a perfect time for newbies or folks curious about polyamory to learn and possibly explore your own feelings around it, so feel free to chime in (respectfully!) if you've got questions about what someone is saying!

  • xj9 [they/them, she/her]
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    10 days ago

    Just trying not to be used for cheating this year. I'd like to make more friends and maybe date, but I'm gonna try to be more aware of red flags and yellow flags. I'm trying to be more trusting, but there's a balance that I gotta find. On the flip side, I feel a lot more seen now that I'm not surrounded by white people. I actually get hit on sometimes and that makes me really happy.

    • Infamousblt [any]
      hexagon
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      10 days ago

      Sounds like your year! Always work to do in life but it sounds like you've got yourself in a good community now and that's one of the most important things I think