I dunno, I thought it would be higher. I guess I'm just a slut surrounded by sluts (positive).
What do you think about the number? Does it surprise you? Does it surprise you that it surprises me? Did you expect it to be lower maybe? If so why?
I just find this interesting. No judgement (unless you want that you dirty little gremlin)
So if I'm in my 30's and waaaay behind, is there hope I could catch up to the average or am I just gonna be behind forever? lol
Bigger number doesn't equal better number. But in my experience I received more interest from people when I weren't looking to hook up, probably because it allowed me to interact with them in a personable non horny way.
I've had some good times using hinge too, but I live in a big city with good public transport, so my life is probably different from yours.
I know lots of old people who just started to hit their "hoe phase" and I know swinger clubs aren't really for the young and pretty most of the time.
well for one, there isn't inherent value to number going up, it doesn't determine your worth, but secondly yeah I mean I'd say chances are probably pretty high of it goin up, especially if you are looking!
well I've been looking my whole adult life, and still no dice. At this point I have to conclude I'm too broken for anyone to be interested in me, even if only for a FWB or fling or whatever.
for me the low number is from a compete lack of opportunity and a symptom of horrible social problems.
having the option would require my life to have vastly improved, which is what i want and have no delusions or expectations of happening,
yeah, same here @ everything you said.
For me, it's living at home + no job + no car. Also being really shy due to trauma, and living in a lame place. idk about you.
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