gender is socially constructed. saying that you prefer "natural born women" is exactly like saying you prefer people who weren't "born a criminal"

  • BOK6669 [none/use name]
    2·
    4 years ago

    I don't disagree with any of that though. I don't think I made any assumptions, I just didn't expound to the nuance you need from me.

    And I never said I wouldn't date a trans person, but I did say that if a relationship progressed, male sex organ would be something not for me. And of course, that's not something you can just know.

    • gay [any]
      2·
      4 years ago

      but I did say that if a relationship progressed, male sex organ would be something not for me.

      Irrelevant comments be like:

      • BOK6669 [none/use name]
        1·
        4 years ago

        The original post was that having a preference between cis and trans women is transphobic. I agree, having a preference on illusionary bullshit is phobic. I stated that if a relationship progressed to the point of sex, male sex organ is not for me and that I can't change it.

        I think where the problem is that I skipped a lot of details to where that conclusion is relevant and just focused on my personal boundaries (mostly because I thought this was main- not somewhere where I needed to be very clear and concise.)

        • gay [any]
          2·
          4 years ago

          Yeah, that makes sense. But I'm still gonna need you to accept the internalized transphobia part.