like fuck being cis i just want the chance to look decently feminine

  • the_river_cass [she/her]
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    4 年前

    you mean AMAB people who are not transitioning and already look more femme than you, right? cause if so... yepppp. it's silly and shitty and I try not to dwell on those thoughts (real forced fem hours). it's also dysphoria talking and as I manage that, I notice this kind of thing way less often.

    also, transition is slow and it takes a while but it does also do quite the work. you have a better chance of looking decently feminine than you think.

    • ElectricMonk [she/her,undecided]
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      4 年前

      you mean AMAB people who are not transitioning and already look more femme than you, right?

      Yeah I do, much more then cis women for some reason.

      also, transition is slow and it takes a while but it does also do quite the work. you have a better chance of looking decently feminine than you think.

      Thanks <3. haven’t started yet but I’m going to a lgbt+ focused GP to start working things out.

      • the_river_cass [she/her]
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        4 年前

        yeah, I remember doing that a lot more when I was early in transition. I think it's that when you first start paying attention to the things that clock you, it's most easy to notice their absence in people who look more like you than in people who look totally different. nowadays, I notice women as a whole a lot more than I do men, from a place of jealousy, anyway.

        I’m going to a lgbt+ focused GP to start working things out

        yay! I'm so excited for you :)