Absolutely, even when gendered language is used as a phrase it can still cause harm "you guys" "cmon man" etc. I hurt someone by thoughtlessly saying "cmon man" once, so if you're someone who uses phrases like these consider rotating them out of your vocabulary, or at least use them carefully, I just don't think it's worth the risk of hurting someone <3
But until then everyone should remember that they/them is usually a good option for if you're not sure what pronoun to use <3
Edit: click that link TransComrade sent!
https://hexbear.net/post/1125
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Absolutely, even when gendered language is used as a phrase it can still cause harm "you guys" "cmon man" etc. I hurt someone by thoughtlessly saying "cmon man" once, so if you're someone who uses phrases like these consider rotating them out of your vocabulary, or at least use them carefully, I just don't think it's worth the risk of hurting someone <3
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for sure, I rely on y'all heavily for that purpose, used to always say "you guys"
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