I like this girl at work but haven't asked her out. I keep reading (on reddit, yes i know) that dating co workers is a terrible idea because if things go bad you have to see that person everyday still.

I then wanted to just be friends with her but a part of me thinks i'll regret it if only be friends. Also that itd be dishonest to be friends with her when I'm interested.

Then if rejected I have to see the girl that rejected me everyday. Ofc i wouldn't care over time, but still would be weird.

I don't know what I want, let alone figure out what to do. I think about how silly this is the top of my worries. Send help

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    4 years ago

    In my job hook-ups and relationships among coworkers are very common, and they all (mostly) act cool afterwards.

    The potential problem of start dating a coworker is a bad break up, but not rejection; unless you are like "they didn't want to catch some drinks with me so now I will be forever sour against them", which means you are probably 13 yo and you should be in school not at work.