I imagine him all frustrated trying so hard, regurgitating theory quotes with glassy eyes and everyone going "OK, CIA brat" under their breath

Really sex pest behaviour.

    • Spartacist [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      Physical attraction, in me, has lead to minor sexual harassment in which my body unconsciously looks at someone in an impolite manner

        • Spartacist [he/him]
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          4 years ago

          I’ve been trying my fucking hardest over the past year and a quarter, because I had a really awful flight where I had to spend 5 hours staring at the seat in front of me, cursing at myself in my head because if I hadn’t overheard something, I would have spent the entire flight leering at the woman sitting next to me like a fucking pervert

              • MerryChristmas [any]
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                4 years ago

                Go for it, comrade. There's no better way to address these issues than talking about them.

                  • MerryChristmas [any]
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                    4 years ago

                    I'm not the person you were originally talking to just FYI, but I'm happy to listen and offer my thoughts! If it does end up being too much to handle right now, I'll get to it after work.

            • Spartacist [he/him]
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              4 years ago

              I spent the whole flight in thought and desperately wondering if I had upset people before with my behavior and if it was too late to apologize.

              Besides, the magazines suck on planes. The crossword and Sudoku is already filled in.

              • SteveHasBunker [he/him]
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                4 years ago

                I read your other comment and you said you were a teen and the woman you “leered” was an adult. Most adult women get teenaged boys are horny balls of hormones who don’t have the best self control and probably aren’t gonna assume you’re some disgusting perv just for letting your eyes linger a bit too long. You may at worst made her mildly uncomfortable but the fact you recognized you were being kinda creepy and stopped probably was more than enough of an “apology” and she probably didn’t care pass that.

                Plus I think the idea that “viewing someone sexually attractive without there consent” isn’t really a violation. People don’t have 100% control of their thoughts and other people can’t read your thoughts, the contents of your mind are your own, as long as they don’t lead to fucked but behavior you shouldn’t really feel guilty for them. Also a world where you couldn’t even feel attracted to someone without their prior consent would... well I don’t understand how dating would even work in that world. Pretty sure all non-asexual people wouldn’t want that.

                • Spartacist [he/him]
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                  4 years ago

                  Well, to be fair, I context also context tended context to context leer context at context peers context. I’ve been correcting that as well. (Sorry about the context thing it’s to make OOC editing harder) But relationships, as I view them, tend to grow from friendships. My only ever date came as a result of this.

                  • SteveHasBunker [he/him]
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                    4 years ago

                    But relationships, as I view them, tend to grow from friendships. My only ever date came as a result of this.

                    I mean yeah but unless you’re an asexual person who wants a non-physical romance, physical attraction is usually gonna be a factor in that. It’s usually the evolution of two friends realizing they have a mutual physical attraction to each other and then deciding to explore that. You can be friends with someone but also think they’re kinda cute and maybe would be DTF if they were but if they’re not whatever. That’s like, most of my friends.