• Gay_Wrath [fae/faer]
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    4 years ago

    i might be misreading but

    if it were any other freelance job wouldn't it just be treated like your money? Why should she get part of if if she makes as much at her regular job and you're not otherwise supporting her?

    putting it toward shared rents seems more than fair, i'd do the same

    • BigDaddy [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      Yeah, girlfriend wouldn't expect any $ from the other side jobs I did. It just seems that because I work for my landlord, and because I chose to have the landlord take my earnings out of our rent for convenience, it sounds unfair because she's "paying more for rent." Someone else said it's just our lizard brain logic lol.