Unmarried youths were forbidden from having sex with each other and would be punished if caught. However, plenty of opportunity was given for them to get away with this
Afaik this was somewhat common in Sparta, their approach to many things was "it's not bad if you do this, it is only bad if you are caught".
Also calling Sparta "fascist" is really weird and anachronistic. I get what you are trying to say but fascism is very much a 20th century phenomenon, you can't apply these concepts to ancient Greece, similarly it is kinda silly to call other Greek civilizations liberal or socialist or whatever, the terms are just not very applicable.
Afaik this was somewhat common in Sparta, their approach to many things was "it's not bad if you do this, it is only bad if you are caught".
Also calling Sparta "fascist" is really weird and anachronistic. I get what you are trying to say but fascism is very much a 20th century phenomenon, you can't apply these concepts to ancient Greece, similarly it is kinda silly to call other Greek civilizations liberal or socialist or whatever, the terms are just not very applicable.