The last few months have been absolute hell because of this, me and my partner are somehow the only non cishet people at this whole thing despite it having like 300 guests. This is also right after I started estrogen and it's been nonstop "this is the groom's brother" bs. To be fair I've not told anyone but it still feels shitty. We've basically been forced back into the closet for the last like 6 months.
On top of this, they've been giving almost no info about plans to our family, everything is by the seat of our pants which is doubly bad because it's a Sikh wedding and our side is almost entirely made up of wasps so people really don't know what they're doing.
It's the last event today and I feel like I'm gonna tear off my skin.
edit: wanted to add, I love my new sister-in-law, she's lovely, but if I have to hear them talk about fucking harry potter again and try to get me to see the cursed child I'm gonna scream lol.
try to get me to see the cursed child
apropos of nothing, this alone is an insane red flag
My brother is a fascist who plays EU4 and HOI4 and loves singing Japanese fascist tunes.
Be content that you don't have him as your sibling.
Sigh
But, err, yeah, sorry you have to deal with all of this.
Its comments like these that make me very lucky to know the worst people in my extended family are like, slightly west worshipping Chinese libs, but everyone else has gotten more communist because of Trump lmao.
loves singing Japanese fascist tunes.
Let me guess, Battotai with the most grating Anglo-American accent imaginable
"Today of blessing everyone is a big weave."
Yeah, I got this for my translation lmao
I was trying to say "we are all huge weebs on this blessed day"
Trust me, you don't want my brother either. He isn't a weeb, but he is a reactionary who says a lot of patently offensive shit.
the cursed child
????????????
obviously harry potter is
to begin with, but cursed child is also just legitimately terrible outside of that lmaoYour brother doesn't know you came out as nonbinary? Or nobody at all knows?
Besides that, lmao, I love this kind of stories: Hexbearite in weird situations
Actually he does know that I'm nonbinary just not that I started hrt.
Serious question: would the best term for a non binary sibling just be "sibling"?
I believe nibbling is for niece/nephew, being derived from sibling.
i didnt even think of nephew or nieces. although I do have nieces are who half Nigerian and half American(white) so i would have to hope they don't think i said a "g" instead of a "b" lol. There's a standup bit in there somewhere.
sometimes the answers are the simplest ones. thank you for helping me be sure of my language.
No worries! Sibling is a perfect existing word for that. The tricky one is girl/boyfriend because while partner exists, it implies marriage rather than just romantic relationship.
plus some people hear partner and probably think " OH U GAY?"
The events on Earth all pass through time at a fixed rate(1), so this storm will pass.(1) Of course this is technically not accurate given of our understanding of the nature of spacetime and for example does not hold for high-precision particle physics experiments, but for human-scale events on the same planet, it's a close enough approximation to be valid with regards to social events you will face.
Stay strong.
I hope it wont be long before you can live as you are with them
So sorry comrade that sounds like shit, straight weddings r 🤮
Also congrats on the e 💜🎉
