For the cissies out there: you’re not a bad person for buying / playing this game if you didn’t know.

That last sentence was entirely there to accommodate cis fragility. :cissues:

Go read that post. The game is bad.

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      That last sentence was entirely there to accommodate cis fragility.

      i would guess that bit maybe?

      i don't fuckin know

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            I don't either, I mean that there's a lot of fragility on display.

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              Absolute majority of people on this website agree with you and the only reason people downvote posts like this is because you are looking to get into a fight. Do you think screeching "FRAGILE CISSIES" over and over will convince people? You are just stirring shit because of perceived enemy/outgroup that doesn't even fucking exist on website. Chill out, breathe, relax. Trans folks are welcome here. There is no need to whip yourself into a frenzy over imaginary bullshit.

              Don't get me wrong, I don't care about cyberpunk. Fuck this game. Fuck CDPR for being transphobic. Downvote shit opinions, report stupidpol shit, ban everyone who disagrees with validity of trans points of view. But you don't make it better by doing whatever you are doing in this thread, you are just creating /r/stupidpol content

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                  Yes because I actually like this website and don't want my main to get banned for mild dissent (like it happened during the pronouns struggle session)

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                    I am begging you to take the gentle ribbing of a funny emote with good humor. :cissues:

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                          You can seethe all you want and I agree with you on all of the points. You are cool and good and you don't have to fight imaginary enemies on this website. They don't exist.

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                            funny then how this keeps coming up

                            https://hexbear.net/post/58883/comment/580903

                            https://hexbear.net/post/64330/comment/654312

                            https://hexbear.net/post/63348/comment/640227

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                              You are doing good work educating people, thank you for that. I don't think any of the comments that you've linked are transphobic though. People need to be educated and you linked good examples of how one can do that. This thread is not a good example of educating people because "FRAGILE CISSIES" is not education.

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                                fragile cissies isn't education. it's a call out of a pattern of behavior that goes back for several months on this site. people want to assume that cis is the natural default and get mad when that notion gets challenged in even subtle ways, like with the pronoun tags. it's not "I want to murder trans people", it's "just stop reminding me trans people exist".

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                                  “just stop reminding me trans people exist”

                                  I'm sorry but I just don't see that in comments that you've linked. As for the larger pattern of behaviour we could certainly do better, but that's beside the point.

                                  You don't have as much enemies on the website as you think you do and I disagree with methods that you've picked for trying to educate people and change this larger pattern. I don't believe in negative reinforcement in general and your comments are antagonistic when they simply don't need to be. This isn't how I would educate allies, especially people that are already open to being educated.

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                                    1. tone policing sucks ass

                                    2. notice that I've only replied to people who are already on my side with the cis fragility stuff. if you have a problem with me venting to allies, I'm sorry but I just don't care what you think.

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                                you're reading tone instead of content. polite defense of cissexism is still transphobic, even when it's not of the "murder trans people" variety.

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                                  you’re reading tone instead of content

                                  That's super true. I find that many struggles are not between the opinions that are displayed but rather the tone they are displayed in or the words that are used.

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                                    this true but civility policing is libshit, especially when it's directed at marginalized comrades. civility protects the status quo and the status quo is quite transphobic.

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                                        I'm venting to allies about how often I have to explain this shit. I've explained this patiently to every. single. person. that has brought this discussion up. you are not entitled to my educational labor nor the emotional bandwidth this shit requires.

                                        fuck. off.

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                    My other comment on this thread is now a lie, I have now downvoted something.

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                Do you think screeching “FRAGILE CISSIES” over and over will convince people?

                :fidel-si:

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                    combat liberalism

                    FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES FRAGILE CISSIES

                    😎 Liberlism Defeated 😎

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        Yeah just that but basically, paired with the tissue emoji? For the record, when I say inflammatory I don't mean cis people are getting bullied or anything but a red flag was waved in front of the Cis Fragility Bull and people are surprised it charged?

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          I will bait that bull all day every day. fuck cis fragility. if you think getting called out for it is a big deal, jfc, let's trade lives. I have literally been attacked and my life has literally been threatened because I'm trans. I've had to flee restaurants after getting chased out of bathrooms. it's not your humanity getting questioned day in and day out.

          fuck. your. cis. fragility.

          the fact that I even have to say this is fucking offensive on a site made for and by leftists.