I also just want to say that no matter how friendly it is here everyone on here is still a complete stranger who probably doesn't know you or likely anyone else on here.

I'm glad this place works as a safe space for some and it should be kept that way through moderation but literally anyone could be on here and not everyone has good intentions. You can't ever expect this place to be always 100% good because random people are not always good. It would only take some reactionary discord server to harass several people for days. Hell, even I've had randoms in my DMs on Reddit shouting bullshit at me and that's not even coordinated.

No one should have to keep their identity a secret on here, but you should also be willing to accept that not doing so also opens you up to whatever random person on the internet happens to be on that day.