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  • kavila [any]
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    4 years ago

    I believe you 100% and would also like to purge all transphobes

    but please please please can you give us some examples of people being transphobic on this website and explain to us why what they said is transphobic?

    every. single. post. about this is completely lacking any context

      • kavila [any]
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        4 years ago

        But what I'm saying is that in the course of explaining this there have been almost no links, and what links there were went to metaposts talking about deleted posts. It is impossible to figure out what exactly you are upset about.

        • HarryLime [any]
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          4 years ago

          How about this from downthread? This guy misgendered OP while sniping at her. Maybe this sort of thing is more common on the site than either of us have seen.

          • kavila [any]
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            4 years ago

            for real that is shitty but that user was banned instantaneously. surely that's not what this massive struggle session is about

            • HarryLime [any]
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              4 years ago

              Well, TransComrade69 is an admin and this is her post, so she can see it right away, plus a lot of other admins are in here. THat might not happen all the time. I just browsed the modlog, and while I'm not sure I agree with every action there, check out the history of this user. He spread racist misinformation four days ago and was only banned today.

    • existentialspicerack [she/her,they/them]
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      4 years ago

      dude that's been done. so many times. the way people go to the queer subs and downvote shit like crazy and fits are thrown. about fits thrown over the pronoun option you seem to have neglected. etc.

      • kavila [any]
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        4 years ago

        I'm sorry, I didn't know not setting my pronouns was transphobic, but now that I've set them can somebody please show me some links or screenshots or copypasta or ANYTHING???

          • kavila [any]
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            4 years ago

            I did, I read every single one of them. I couldn't find a single screenshot or link to any comment that anyone even claimed was transphobic and nobody can provide me with one now.

            • existentialspicerack [she/her,they/them]
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              4 years ago

              this isn't a trial. this is someone saying they're fed up and walking the fuck away. a lot of it is probably in mod view or looking at TRENDS, and obvs most of the offending posts were deleted, but a lot of them looked exactly like yours here, or like the pervasive downvoting of anything in the queer sections of the site. jesus look on fucking archive.org if you absolutely must.

              i think trusting a respected person and a whole demographic slice of people without demanding 'evidence' is pretty fair, and honestly if you haven't seen it yourself, you've been trying to look away. cut out the debate-bro JAQing off.

              • kavila [any]
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                4 years ago

                I don't want anybody to flee this community feeling marginalized, but if they can't explain or even point to the incidents that upset them there is nothing the rest of us can do about it!

                • existentialspicerack [she/her,they/them]
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                  4 years ago

                  they did. shut the fuck up with your concern troll JAQing off lib shit. go back and read the posts. then read/watch the links if you don't get it. it's not just to ask the oppressed to perform work on behalf of their oppressors, though many will volunteer. educate your own damn self. the resources are in plain fucking view.

                  • kavila [any]
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                    4 years ago

                    WHAT POSTS AM I SUPPOSED TO READ

                    WHAT LINKS AM I SUPPOSED TO CLICK

                    WHERE ARE THESE RESOURCES IN PLAIN FUCKING VIEW

                    • existentialspicerack [she/her,they/them]
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                      4 years ago

                      I've already told you this(scroll up, I know I did), and, as a marginalized person, demanding I take my time effort and emotional tolerance to educate your deliberately oblivious ass is bigoted disingenuous and entitled.

                      I no longer wish to engage with you. this should have been clear, but I was trying to explain in good faith on behalf of other marginalized people you might impose on in the future.

                      • kavila [any]
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                        4 years ago

                        please I am begging you can you just give me one link to click

                        please

                        • existentialspicerack [she/her,they/them]
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                          4 years ago

                          no means no. why do you seem to think it means something else? in english spanish french(almost exactly) itallian, I think dutch and portugese, very similar words in german and russian, it means the same thing, and I know of no other languages that use roman letters, which you seem familiar with. I do hope you're never exposed to women in-person. that could go very bad very fast.

                          • kavila [any]
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                            4 years ago

                            Every time I engage in a lengthy discussion on this fucking website I end up arguing with people who are either schizophrenic, cumtown plants or twelve years old

                            I love it

                        • existentialspicerack [she/her,they/them]
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                          4 years ago

                          im not seeing the block button, so please stop talking to me you disgusting piece of shit. I;ve told you I wish to disengage from this. respect that.

    • Zodiark
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      4 months ago

      deleted by creator

      • kavila [any]
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        4 years ago

        this is a post about a removed transphobic comment that was upvoted 195 times

        it also DOESN'T INCLUDE THE COMMENT

        am I insane? this feels like gaslighting for real

    • Suzina [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      Why would you say "I believe you 100%" before any evidence has been provided? It's just a meme. There's nothing to believe. No clear claim articulated nor evidence granted. Reserve judgement.

      If you don't know why someone would post something, that's fine.