My buddy dated a girl for 3 years, lived with for 2 years. They broke up and he started a new relationship after 5 months of being single. Too quick? That seems too quick.

Personally, I like to wait a year or two before getting into a new relationship. I just really enjoy the time off. I'm not passing judgement upon him, he can date whenever he wants and I won't give any grief. I just want to analyze this difference in each other's personalities and learn something.

Maybe I'm too high?

  • el_principito [he/him,none/use name]
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    4 years ago

    There’s no answer I think. But I sort of did this in my past and my therapist told me o struggle with separation anxiety and/or issues of co-dependency.

    But then again, the relationship I “jumped into” post-break up has lasted almost 10 years and I’m marrying the girl. She literally woke me up to the smell of scones and coffee this morning ❣️.. soooo