1) I guarantee this is a chud who only watches gay porn and yet has convinced himself he's not gay for whatever dumb reason and so he lives a life of mental gymnastics and misery instead. And no I don't think all homophobes are secretly gay. I just suspect this guy based on the weird mental gymnastics he does
2) "to make sure I'm transparent, I'm straight" / "these labels don't need to exist" lol
https://reddit.com/r/Showerthoughts/comments/l09yb6/_/gjsnzxz/?context=1
I definitely should have provided more context for this post and explained their further behaviour more. In a comment before this he uses his logic here to argue against "special treatment" for LGBT+ people for example, by which he means LGBT charities, pride, gay spaces, etc. I should have included more of that as the lack of context for his remarks makes it look like Im attacking the guy for having a fairly nuanced take on sexuality - which wasn't my intention
I mean, he's right, mostly. You know why they use the "men who have sex with men" label and what not.
Oh I'm not suggesting he's not right or at least circling the right sort of area. It's more how he's arrived at that conclusion and why