One thing I really like about this site is that when someone posts about bad shit that's happened in their life, or that they're struggling mentally, or even if they've had some personal achievement, the responses all feel really sincerely supportive

On reddit, the responses to that sort of post all felt so fucking performative and patronising, like just signalling to everyone "look what a caring person I am" while giving zero actual shits about the person on the other end

Maybe it's the smaller, more personal community or maybe it's just because people here give more of a shit than r*dditors, but it's cool