With this costume one can be intellectual, without mansplaining. One can be powerful, without being frightening and aggressive. One can express sexuality, without objectifying and being "rapey".

In other words in this subculture one must become a "woman" to be masculine.

This line of thinking could have been an exploration into how we're reexamining gender roles and how the boundaries of which behaviors "permitted" to men and women are being reshaped, but instead it just veers off into transphobic garbage. Being a transphobe makes you worse at understanding gender overall, read Leslie Feinberg.