I feel you. People who say stuff like "oh even though HRC took Goldman Sachs/private prison money, that doesn't mean she's in any way influenced by them" don't stand a chance of being deprogrammed — unless their material conditions fundamentally change (it's all the PMCs in my life saying these things cuz they sOoOoOoOo hooked on pRoFeSsIonAl EthIcS). At some point you might just want to disengage