Anyone relate? I really can't date because of my physical and mental health and covid, plus poverty, but god sometimes I miss intimacy.

Sometimes I feel like I deserve this because I broke three women's hearts. And I'm truly sorry for doing that. I'm happy they're doing good now, one is even married! But I miss having someone who loved me and accepted me, someone who had my back, you know?

  • SorosFootSoldier [he/him, they/them]
    hexagon
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    4 years ago

    best advice I heard is that if someone likes you don’t need a fancy dinner just something that shows your affection to hang out.

    No you don't need anything fancy at all!

    • Wmill [they/them]
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      4 years ago

      I'm still fancy as I drink my tea with my pinky up. This is not innuendo just to be clear just a spongebob joke btw.

        • Wmill [they/them]
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          4 years ago

          On a more serious manner though your right. I guess the fancy dinner thing is a hold over expectation that this capitalist society pushes on us you know? I joke but I do try to look higher class but because I think no one would date me if I didn't.

          Edit made an unintentional manner and fancy joke I'm sorry :sadness:

          • SorosFootSoldier [he/him, they/them]
            hexagon
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            4 years ago

            Honestly I've never been on a "traditional" date so to speak. When I meet a girl, we usually just hang out in my car or hers and usually make out a bit and get to know one another. So there's that.

            • Wmill [they/them]
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              4 years ago

              I've just never been on a date if I'm being honest. I would like to some day, just hope women my age don't mind how much of a dork I am.