When I was younger, I was pretty insecure and did. But as I get older, it just feels like work and stress, and if I need to know something, I'll just ask them.
Or should I make well sure that they're not a Nazi or something?
When I was younger, I was pretty insecure and did. But as I get older, it just feels like work and stress, and if I need to know something, I'll just ask them.
Or should I make well sure that they're not a Nazi or something?
I mean I did the same thing, but as I grew up I felt this stemmed from insecurity, and it's all'n all to better just talk to the individual straight up. I think a level of it is normal for those in the internet age, but outside of making sure the person isn't a nazi or just seeing what they post, it's not beneficial imo. Whatcha gon do? Bring up that they commented on someone else's thirst post or something? Like, it's just not cohesive in the long run for a healthy relationship y'know?