It's a chicken and egg thing, isn't it? There are perfectly normal-looking dudes who get into this ideology because there are not confident and are afraid to get out there and risk rejection. There are also awkward ugly dudes who probably wouldn't have turned into bitter woman-haters if they were good looking. Not saying that that's a right reaction to being awkward and ugly though.
I mean, beauty is a social construct to an extent but even if we agree that it's 100% arbitrary, would you disagree that there are people whom most people around them find unattractive? I think there are people like that and being treated like that can really fuck with person's confidence when they're growing up.
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It's a chicken and egg thing, isn't it? There are perfectly normal-looking dudes who get into this ideology because there are not confident and are afraid to get out there and risk rejection. There are also awkward ugly dudes who probably wouldn't have turned into bitter woman-haters if they were good looking. Not saying that that's a right reaction to being awkward and ugly though.
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I mean, beauty is a social construct to an extent but even if we agree that it's 100% arbitrary, would you disagree that there are people whom most people around them find unattractive? I think there are people like that and being treated like that can really fuck with person's confidence when they're growing up.
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