Ghghghz [she/her]

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Cake day: July 29th, 2020

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  • Ghghghz [she/her]tonews*Permanently Deleted*
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    4 years ago

    I've been having a really tough time lately, Covid lockdown has got me really down. I'm lonely but I'm also anxious even leaving the house now. I think all this isolation has made my social skills even worse than they were pre-Covid





  • Yeah that's what I'm worried about, landlords have other ways of making life difficult besides putting up rent. She is very petty too so I am afraid of how she might respond to me challenging her. I'm already on her shit list because we paid rent late last month, I think her raising the rent with such short notice this month was retaliation for that. But for now, I'm happy that I don't have to pay the extra!


  • I feel like all I do is come on to the megathread and give out about my renting situation but some good news finally. My landlord attempted to raise my rent for the coming month and gave me only 3 days notice. I contacted the tenant-landlord dispute board and they told me she has to give me 90 days written notice before she increases my rent. I emailed her and told her I'll be paying her the previously agreed on amount, not the new rent she wants me to pay. So that's a small victory



  • I posted a couple of days back about the problems I was having with my landlord and today was the final straw. I got a letter in the post from her saying she is increasing our rent from the 1st of March, giving us just 3 days notice. She also says she wants us to pay up for some discrepancy she found in a deposit payment from 2019 even though the guy who didn't pay the right deposit moved out in September. Me and my housemates have all decided to say fuck that and we are all going to move out at the end of March. Luckily I can move back in with my parents and work from home there, it's not ideal but I can't live in this house anymore. Fuck landlords.








  • I had an eating disorder for most of my teenage years up until I was 21, even though I'm on the other side of that now I still obsess over my appearance and how other people see me. I know that I am reasonably attractive, but sometimes I catch a glimpse of myself in a mirror and think of all the things I could "fix" about myself to make me more attractive. It has been a long process to stop from thinking that my worth is directly tied to how attractive other people think I am


  • Every hour is hating irish landlord hours. My landlord's father owns a rake of properties in the greater Dublin area so I assume she's overseeing some for him, takes her about 7 business days to respond to emails (if she even does) and she never answers the phone number she gave us. I've never actually seen her in person but I'm sure if we stopped paying rent she'd be on to us straight away. What is it about irish landlords in particular that make them so shitty, every one of my friends who have rented in their life have had horrific experiences with them


  • Renting is such a head ache. One of my housemates has just moved out, hasn't bothered trying to find a replacement for himself so when it comes to the end of the month and we still don't have a new housemate me and my other housemates will have to cover his portion of the rent. The fridge keeps turning off and on and the landlord hasn't replaced it yet, I have to duct tape my window closed and the roof leaks if there's too much rain. Renting is soul destroying, and with the way the property market is in Ireland I'll never own my own home. Feels bad