spent 3 hours at the DMV today to get a new driver's license photo but not actually change my gender marker. baby steps I guess 🙃

my hair hasn't been this long since high school, when I took such a pretty football photo that it was the only photo of myself that I actually liked to look at until I started transition almost 20 years later 🥰

I haven't seen this before. It's very accurate and clever. I hate it.

great comment, even

That's true, but that does imply that this war would conclude first. Which is consistent with saying Russia does not want this conflict to expand beyond Ukraine.

I'm not arguing either of these points, I'm just pointing out that all NYT is saying here is that US officials have always believed that Russia wants this war to stay contained to Ukraine. Not that they think Russia didn't want this war or that Russia doesn't have other interests it will pursue external to this war.

All I'm saying is NYT didn't really reveal anything here.

I'm not trying to get flamed as a lib here, but there's a gulf of difference between "not wanting to expand the war" and "having no further ambition once the war is over"

I gotta start going to bars 😅

right?? RFK jr is married to Larry David's ex-wife 🤯

the first sound plan I've seen on here

my shoes were feeling a little tight

I'm nonbinary transfem and I also don't relate to "woman". My identity really grew out from wanting people to not perceive me as a "man". I wanted to be a beautiful queer little femcreature that other queer femcreatures adore. As I experience femininity, particularly within cishet society, I find myself even more turned off by any expectations of gender, and emboldened in my own identity and selfexpression. It's a good thing 🫠

When my tiddies first started, the right one grew wayy faster than the left. It made me a little nervous, that maybe I wouldn't love all the changes that were coming. But I gave it time and focussed on the things that did make happy. The boobies kept growing, and sure enough, even though they're still mildly asymmetric, theyre both lovely little jubblies that make looking in the mirror now so much better

We love a good twist ending, don't we folks

Saaaame timeline for me too! So much time living to other peoples expectations, suppressing every hint of personality or self expression if it conflicted with what was "proper". It's a bit sad to think about lost time, but I love who I am today and the broken pieces of my past life are slowly healing or finally being shed as dead weight.

Ya but like 2-3 sheets instead of who-knows-how-much for wiping.

yes

Welllll overdue lol

Right as I was about to crack, a new friend brought me back to her place after drinks to paint my nails and play smash bros. She knew.