Seen incels say to one another "don't worry brother were both gonna make it and get a cream colored white girl someday" creepy as that sounds.
Then you have instances like Elliot Rodger who drones on and on about blonde white women.
Is it because these are the types of women they see as having rejected them in high school? The blonde cheerleader type?
Elliot Rogers was the result of a white supremacist white guy marrying and Asian woman. This made him insecure because about his looks for obvious reasons. He's an incel because of racism, not the other way around.
Also plenty of incels are obsessed with Asian women. I've met many of them in real life.