• TraumaDumpling
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    6 months ago

    ive never had sex with someone that has a vagina but ive like, seen porn. the clitoris is right there. its literally visible. an undeniably present physical phenomena like the blue appearance of the daytime cloudless sky. is this guy trying to fool exclusively small children to make them annoying to everyone around them or what? or does he live somewhere that practices FGM as the norm? im honestly confused as to how this worldview could possibly develop. you'd have to resign to die on the hill of 'the ancient greeks knew better' before ever seeing porn or even a medical textbook.

    • ExotiqueMatter@lemmygrad.ml
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      6 months ago

      Maybe it's a self fulfilling prophecy like, since everyone is hearing all the time that men can't find the clit, when men try to find it they are like "I've been told the clit is super hard to find, it can't be this very visible thing here".

    • TheDialectic [none/use name]
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      6 months ago

      It is a small target to hit at at a high rate of speed in a kinetic situation. It is not difficult in a true sense. It just requires skills practicing with my home equipment had not taught me to master.

      Like, on my first encounter I didn't even know where anything was. It is physically in a diffrent spot than mine and I never realized.