Obvs this doesn't apply to all transfems but I kinda relate to this but Idk how to put it in words exactly since gender is weird.

The way I think about myself is I like being referred to and perceived as as a girl/woman but I don't fully identify with being a girl/woman. (and in some contexts, I'm ok with being seen as a boy/femboy as well).

Cisgender ideology also makes it hard to describe gender outside the conformist binary notion.

  • bestesttrash [she/her]
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    2 months ago

    Tbh Chan is the last place id suggest any trans person take seriously. Gender is silly but can also be important, however u feel about yours is based and p valid, fuck what anyone else’s says.

    • ultraviolet [she/her]M
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      2 months ago

      I don't go on tttt, someone just shared this with me and it spoke to me