I think lots of hexbears could use reading this article. If you've ever thought about or have gone on a diet to lose weight, you should read this article. If you've ever encouraged someone else to go on a diet, you especially should read this article.
Sadly I've even seen my fellow trans comrades pushing this white supremacist line on here many times, which has been very disheartening...
I hope you tell her that often! I've found incessant compliments somewhat effective, but different people might react to that differently.