A friend of mine (or so I thought a friend) was definitely one. The dude wreaked havoc in my life and is in prison currently I believe. Any time I got involved with him my life ended up smoldering.

How about you guys? I feel like people here are more real and honest than on Reddit, I appreciate you all and much love.

  • penguin_von_doom [she/her]
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    3 years ago

    I think my ex may have been one or something like it, or extremely narcissistic. To put it short he literally always failed to consider how his actions affect others, and always acted incredibly surprised when then they end up being hurt by him and failed to take responsibility for anything. Top it with having grandiose plans that would always fall apart in an obvious way, and very peacocky behaviour, unusual clothing style and wanting to fuck everything that moves with very little consideration if it's a good idea or not.

    Took me more than a year to recover from the breakup and him, and I'm still having some bad moments now, two years later.

    • Arkhamasylumresident [he/him]
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      3 years ago

      Sounds like a sociopath or narcissist yeah. Though I’m leaning more towards sociopath because your ex sounds a little bit more hardcore amoral than most narcissists I’ve read about.

      Much love Miss, sorry about him putting you through the trauma. Truly take it easy on yourself

      • penguin_von_doom [she/her]
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        3 years ago

        Thanks. I'm over him, but it sucked for a while. And still to this day I'm always baffled when I remember his :surprised-pika: face whenever something absolutely obvious would backfire or he gets called out.

        • Arkhamasylumresident [he/him]
          hexagon
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          3 years ago

          Yeah, that’s a psychopath, lying as quickly and as often as he did.

          Glad you got away, they don’t always turn out to be immediately dangerous but they often are down the line.

          Much love to you

    • PeludoPorFavor [he/him]
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      3 years ago

      my ex was the same. more narcicistic than legit socio/path.

      I too am still dealing with some deep shit years ago... def talk to someone if you can. that shit can be so hard to juggle yourself.