Like, the amount of times you hear this is mind boggling. And it’s always liberals/“leftists” who say they’re not racist.
“But I just don’t find them attractive.”
You have NOT seen/interacted with literally every single member of that community. How in the fuck can you just broadly say you aren’t attracted to them?
It’s just a preference.
Like, you’re literally saying you don’t find people of a specific race, or from a specific place, or who follow a specific religion attractive. What the fuck kind of “preference” is this? I don’t understand. That’s terfs saying they don’t find “trans” people attractive. No that’s terfs being literal terfs. Stop it.
I’m a POC too! I can’t be racist against my own race!
Yeah, you are being racist against your own race here. I don’t see why you can’t. Candace Owens regularly spreads anti-Black propaganda for her personal benefit. There are countless such examples.
This shit drives me up the wall. And I haven’t even mentioned the amount of times these devolve into arguments about how ___ race/religion is actually bad and people who are a part of it/follow it are bad. So. Many. Times. And said with a straight face too! By people who say they’re not racist or xenophobic. For some reason people think being a POC means you’re immune from being racist/xenophobic. Which just isn’t true.
I’m not saying your bad for feeling this way. A huge part is the culture we’re born in and grow up in. But a sign of maturity is recognising this ingrained racism and getting rid of it.
Sorry, just sometimes liberals get on my fucking nerves.
bit of an understatement there.
judging from the vocal minority that post online, it feels like asian dudes are still split down the middle in terms of whether or not to date asian women at all due to the historically prevailing attitudes from the girls' camp (particularly since the advent of kpop have made asian guys more palatable sexually and suddenly there are options). zoomers and people who grew up in ethnic enclaves don't really have this problem but the millenials and older who grew up in white majority areas definitely have a chip or two on their shoulders. i would like to think these people aren't the majority in real life, but real life has up till relatively recently has been absolutely dominated by rhetoric from asian women (fuckin joy luck club setting the standard for everyone who has never met an asian guy irl) so discourse has been sparse.
the entire topic is a huge toxic fucking minefield, i hate it.
I've noticed that most portrayals of Asian people... both from the West and from Asian counties describing themselves to the West... are very heavy of women. Stepping back, it feels creepy af.
pretty sure most major western cultural works featuring asians have just been riffing on the themes of madame chrysantheme for the past century