Like, the amount of times you hear this is mind boggling. And it’s always liberals/“leftists” who say they’re not racist.
“But I just don’t find them attractive.”
You have NOT seen/interacted with literally every single member of that community. How in the fuck can you just broadly say you aren’t attracted to them?
It’s just a preference.
Like, you’re literally saying you don’t find people of a specific race, or from a specific place, or who follow a specific religion attractive. What the fuck kind of “preference” is this? I don’t understand. That’s terfs saying they don’t find “trans” people attractive. No that’s terfs being literal terfs. Stop it.
I’m a POC too! I can’t be racist against my own race!
Yeah, you are being racist against your own race here. I don’t see why you can’t. Candace Owens regularly spreads anti-Black propaganda for her personal benefit. There are countless such examples.
This shit drives me up the wall. And I haven’t even mentioned the amount of times these devolve into arguments about how ___ race/religion is actually bad and people who are a part of it/follow it are bad. So. Many. Times. And said with a straight face too! By people who say they’re not racist or xenophobic. For some reason people think being a POC means you’re immune from being racist/xenophobic. Which just isn’t true.
I’m not saying your bad for feeling this way. A huge part is the culture we’re born in and grow up in. But a sign of maturity is recognising this ingrained racism and getting rid of it.
Sorry, just sometimes liberals get on my fucking nerves.
https://www.joe.ie/life-style/amount-men-30-not-sex-nearly-tripled-past-decade-663846
https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2018/12/the-sex-recession/573949/
eh i think theres more sexless people than we think, and again just because its possible for people to have sex doesnt mean its happening, hence the alienation. , and again, if injured or absent genitals prevents people from participating in the sexual marketplace (assuming they want to ) that is bad in itself and is exactly some of the alienation im talking about, an alienation that is partially based on having marginalizing identities/experiences that are considered unattractive/ unfunctional within society's normative sexuality (which is genital based, cishetero based, penetrative based and able-bodied based among other things)
also its kinda weird how you think that those with injured or absent genitals being sexless is a logical conclusion to their condition...like this is exactly what im talking about, non normative people being made to sit in the corner, unable to participate in sexuality (specifically a sexuality that centers around genitals) due to the assumption from normies that they dont want to have sex/ cant have sex / and that that's okay because its what one can expect if they have injured or absent genitals