• Wogre [he/him]
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        4 years ago

        Personally I think its more these people are highly socially alienated and thus are starving for any form of love and affection; and a problematic version of that like with this has extra appeal as it shows guys as the object of desire and pursuit, something that is not the norm in modern society, and can satiate their need to feel wanted and valued intimately by another. I'm pretty socially inept and have had little success romantically, and these kinds of fantasies hold an appeal to me too because I really want someone to desire me.

            • machiabelly [she/her]
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              4 years ago

              Well I hope you have nice friends at least. I don't think my heart could take another relationship where i never knew if they actually cared about me or not. I can't tell you what to do or change but I do believe that we have indirect control over what we like and who we love. I hope your life changes in a way where you can find room for someone who wants to make you happy and horny.