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  • Phish [he/him, any]
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    3 years ago

    Smile, be nice, make casual conversation until you find a topic you share some interest in, and don't overdo it. Going over the top with flirty stuff right off the bat freaks a lot of people out.

    Just remember you're talking to another person. If you have a future together you'll find a natural connection that makes everything a little easier. One of the toughest lessons I had to learn about dating was that when talking or flirting feels like an uphill climb it's not necessarily because you're bad it it, it's more about chemistry.

      • Phish [he/him, any]
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        3 years ago

        Haha I feel you on that. I would never catcall a woman but I have to admit, if I was walking down the street and some lady looked at me and made a comment about my ass or something it would make me smile. I try to be unaggressive and approach it more like a conversation than flirting at first. Some people like to be flirted with a bit more directly but it's better to start more casually in case they don't.

      • Pezevenk [he/him]
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        3 years ago

        Talking to another person doesn't mean talking to another person that is the same as you, it just means that you shouldn't treat them as some kind of machine where you input your flirt bux and then hopefully it works.