choking, hitting, bondage, dom/sub (im the sub), deepthroating, clamps, slapping, lactation, just a lot of bdsm stuff. i like the idea of group sex but in practice i havent enjoyed it much. its mostly because i want to be the center of attention and thats not exactly how it works lol
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this isnt necessarily a fetish, but i also do a related thing of ptsd therapy with my bf where we do some things that my rapist did to me and then we have him pause and stop, and then we do something else. idk if this is supported by any scientific literature but it feels good to have control over the 'sensation' of what happened and decouple it from being a 'bad' thing in my head. it really fucked me up but i can have sex with my bf way easier now because of it. also pls spoiler your comment if u reply to this section
choking, hitting, bondage, dom/sub (im the sub), deepthroating, clamps, slapping, lactation, just a lot of bdsm stuff. i like the idea of group sex but in practice i havent enjoyed it much. its mostly because i want to be the center of attention and thats not exactly how it works lol
CW SV:
spoiler
this isnt necessarily a fetish, but i also do a related thing of ptsd therapy with my bf where we do some things that my rapist did to me and then we have him pause and stop, and then we do something else. idk if this is supported by any scientific literature but it feels good to have control over the 'sensation' of what happened and decouple it from being a 'bad' thing in my head. it really fucked me up but i can have sex with my bf way easier now because of it. also pls spoiler your comment if u reply to this section
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That kind of therapy can be very empowering. Glad to hear it has helped you comrade.
Me and my partner do something similar and it has helped us.
that's sweet....in a weird way.