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  • EmmaGoldman [she/her, comrade/them]M
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    3 years ago

    Idk if being uncomfortable with sex scenes in media makes someone barney brained or less of an adult. I'd be perfectly happy to never have to see or read one again, being a non-horny person, and they do actively make me uncomfortable. You're dead on about the YA brain poison, though.

    • chromechamp69 [none/use name]
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      3 years ago

      Movies fucking suck now because they are incapable of portraying people having actual emotions and relationships. The end of sex scenes is a part of that

      • EmmaGoldman [she/her, comrade/them]M
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        3 years ago

        Please support me in my efforts to not have to see awkwardly shot and drawn out scenes of heterosexuals fucking every time I want to watch a tv show or movie.

      • hahafuck [they/them]
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        3 years ago

        Nothing against the chapo hosts but this is one of the culture takes they make that you have to take with a grain of salt, male-gazey box-checking badly shot sex scenes and their accompanying shoehorned hetero relationship plots were not crucial to good movies, they were mostly just weird. They also weren't a part of movies, many many excellent movies, for a long time before they became ubiquitous during the 'especially creepy rapist producer' Hollywood era. Not that they aren't necessary and great in lots of films, just not most that they were a thing in. We also don't need a return to the stock scene where prepubescent boys peeped on undressing teen girls, as much as Will Menaker may like that, as an example. More realistic attitudes towards sexuality in movies doesn't mean more sex or nudity, my favorite sex in movies is of the embarassing and uncomfortable sort, or sexual repression and feeling being represented by a lack of sex or even masturbation (sadly underexamined in cinema).

        Now, squibs and practical effects in general? Absolute must, parrot the podcast by all means on that

        • chromechamp69 [none/use name]
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          3 years ago

          i aint parroting the podcast, if anything the idea comes more from this chick

          https://bloodknife.com/everyone-beautiful-no-one-horny/

          and no, its true, bring back titties, if that makes you uncomfortable you can always watch kids movies

            • chromechamp69 [none/use name]
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              3 years ago

              "Movies stopped being good after the 90's" brain

              Fucking 60's stuff made under the hays code had more emotion and humanity than movies nowadays

              • hahafuck [they/them]
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                3 years ago

                A Serious Man came out in 2008 and that's the best movie that's ever been made, but I take your point, there is a distinct quality dropoff, I just don't think it's attributable to sex scenes, or even "everything being PG now", because as you said there were real bangers in the Hayes code era (although often because they did everything they could to get around it). I think the problem is more to do with the demands of marketing, of which "less sex" is only a sliver, like, all those shitty Michael Bay movies everyone holds up as the height of trash are very sexy in an unappealing way