Fuck yeah 
enby endgame is to steal so much gender from other people that it causes a stack overflow in everybody who tries to tell if you're a mr. or ms.
The Agender endgoal of rejecting gender so hard you create a tear in the gal/guy continuim.
You can't binary that which hoots every buddy, pal, guy, and friend in the night...
Becoming so enby you can only be referred to as an indeterminate "uhhh"
Old US army slogan "be all you can be" valor status: stolen and enbyfied.
It'd be funny if there were two of them and one called you miss and the other buddy, their brains would fucking melt.
Never not funny to hear people talk to eachother about you and just each use different sets of pronouns!
Good feel, I have had people refer to me by they/them pronouns irl unprompted, or better yet "that person"
Regional thing anecdote: got into a cab once and there was a dign on the back of the driver's seat that was obvious to passengers which said "I am a trans woman and I do not want to be called 'man's or 'buddy'. Which I can respect the preference regardless of circumstances but she had an accent that seemed Scandinavian of some kind and this maybe makes more sense now. Is 'buddy' a male coded term in Europe? Cause here it's gender neutral and especially where I am in the Canadian maritime it's very very ubiquitous to just refer to someone as 'buddy' or 'bud' as like...a generally friendly thing. Sort of an indication you're willing to engage on a casual bit of chit chat in a friendly way. If you've seen Trailer Park Boys, I grew up exactly where it was filmed and based on and aside from the obvious Rickyisms and stuff, that's how working class people here speak. Buddy is as gender neutral here as dude is in California except dude is masculine coded. Anyway, I wasn't gonna argue this point with the trans immigrant cabbie, but is 'buddy' male gendered elsewhere?
Here in the Mid-Atlantic buddy is male coded and can have negative or positive connotations depending on who is saying it to whom and how.
Negative or positive totally depends on tone here too and it's a sharp difference but it's not gender coded at all.
Us:
https://youtu.be/1EDZMkrkGn0?si=xCpBysUzY1WrpbkW
Me irl when someone is smarter than me:
https://youtu.be/PibXO3VXHoM?si=aH4Lwc4L77n9_4K3
I legit sound like this btw
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