Holy shit, that's really insightful.

And fascinating given the depiction of trans women and gay men in media. They're more often seen in opposition to straight cis women in terms of traditionally feminine skills, even ones where it's really telling on the writers like the ability to please a straight cisgender man sexually.

And then no lgbt person is allowed to outdo a cishet men in traditionally masculine things at all.

And I'm talking about media representation that's supposed to be good and nuanced.

I'll have to do more reading on this.