So much of it sucks. Goin on dates is fuckin exhausting. Then things eventually don't work out and you have to repeat the process. How people can be bothered is beyond me.
Went on a date a while ago, had a good time, but in the end she either wasn't into or just bad at showing she was. Either way, took the L there. I don't mind the rejection so much though, cos it gives me hope that theres people out there who I'm at least interested in.
Went on a date with a new person today. Was excited to go on it, we got on well over text. Came to in person and I just didn't click with em so well. I dunno. Maybe I'm being too harsh. I couldn't really tell how she felt about the date to be honest. Not sure if it's worth the effort of finding out.
Weirdly I feel like first dates went better if I'd been a whore for them over Instagram first.
The vast majority of my romantic and sexual partners have been people I've met through friends where we got to know each other at group hangs or parties and felt a little chemistry. Takes some of the initial nerves out of it and also makes people more comfortable since there's some vetting built in and plus if someone is an asshole on a date it's gonna get back to the mutual friends.
My experience is this isn't true and doesn't quite happen.
Yeah I agree, I miss the days of flirtin at school for that reason. You're around each other plenty and there's always so much to talk about