• Des [she/her, they/them]
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    3 years ago

    i'm pretty butch trans so i really only got hammered with intense dysphoria when i hit puberty and again in my early 20s. eventually i settled into butch/andro style and presentation and only did femme stuff in the sheets or for special occasions. i would do like @bort_simp_son and push a button in a heartbeat if I could but i just don't have the money, mental fortitude, and security to actually transition...