This morning she wrote on another message “you’re cruel”. I have some institutional power at my job. Obviously I wouldn’t try to hurt her. But her reaching out now sounds disingenuous.
edit: see below, I read this wrong
Either way, you need to talk to them without getting mad or whatever. There's obviously something wrong, might be able to settle the beef but if not at least it'll be in the open.
Ops assuming that she knows she fucked up back in 2013 and is trying to cover her ass by reaching out to him now and bc of that he doubts the authenticity of her trying to make amends.
I don’t think he was trying to flex his rank as much as explain why he feels like she’s being fake. I mean she waited until she was in a position under him at work to apologize, she didn’t reach out randomly a year ago or whatever
But yea they work together now, I think he should try to manage the professional side of their relationship now without letting the personal stuff leak into it. Freaking out on her about some shit 8 years ago won’t be a great look lol
Nah definitely I mean straight off while first reading it, it did kind of “hit the ear weird.” But after reading the context right after i understood what you meant.
Good luck navigating it. All I can say is id be cordial but leave it at that.
Because her coming out of nowhere is not a random friendly gesture. Anyhow, sorry that it didn't come out well in text, but the emphasis should be on some, as in little.
edit: see below, I read this wrong
Either way, you need to talk to them without getting mad or whatever. There's obviously something wrong, might be able to settle the beef but if not at least it'll be in the open.
Ops assuming that she knows she fucked up back in 2013 and is trying to cover her ass by reaching out to him now and bc of that he doubts the authenticity of her trying to make amends.
I don’t think he was trying to flex his rank as much as explain why he feels like she’s being fake. I mean she waited until she was in a position under him at work to apologize, she didn’t reach out randomly a year ago or whatever
But yea they work together now, I think he should try to manage the professional side of their relationship now without letting the personal stuff leak into it. Freaking out on her about some shit 8 years ago won’t be a great look lol
But fair enough, I understand his misunderstanding.
Nah definitely I mean straight off while first reading it, it did kind of “hit the ear weird.” But after reading the context right after i understood what you meant.
Good luck navigating it. All I can say is id be cordial but leave it at that.
My bad, yeah I read that weird then. Still, you need to talk fwiw, even if it sucks.
Because her coming out of nowhere is not a random friendly gesture. Anyhow, sorry that it didn't come out well in text, but the emphasis should be on some, as in little.