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minus-squarePhillipkdink [he/him]hexbear26·3 years agoJesus who cares? Just be professional with her who cares that she ghosted you? Like why does that matter at all? Her getting a job at your school is not about you. You don't have to do shit, just be work polite and keep it moving. You're not the same person you were 8 years ago, she probably isn't either. Clean slate, be professional, no grudges that's kid shit. link
minus-squarePhillipkdink [he/him]hexbear4·3 years agoHe can't control whether she cares or not, though I will point out OP didn't tell us what was in the original message he ignored. link
minus-squarePhillipkdink [he/him]hexbear5·3 years agoI agree, escalating the response to an accusation after just a greeting being ignored on FB messenger does suggest she's being a bit dramatic. link
minus-squareeduardog3000 [he/him]hexbear7·edit-23 years ago Jesus who cares? Like why does that matter at all? She cares. Now they have to work together and she may or may not get over it. link
minus-squarePhillipkdink [he/him]hexbear3·3 years agoIt sounds like OP has institutional power and is ignoring communication from a new hire out of personal spite. That is all that we can tell that she cares about, and I would care about that too. link
minus-squareHoodoo [love/loves]hexbear7·3 years agoSince when do people have a responsibility to talk to their co-workers on Facebook? Especially ones that have ghosted you in the past? The only reason institutions seem to be involved is because the New Hire chose to make it so. link
Jesus who cares? Just be professional with her who cares that she ghosted you? Like why does that matter at all?
Her getting a job at your school is not about you. You don't have to do shit, just be work polite and keep it moving.
You're not the same person you were 8 years ago, she probably isn't either. Clean slate, be professional, no grudges that's kid shit.
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He can't control whether she cares or not, though I will point out OP didn't tell us what was in the original message he ignored.
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I agree, escalating the response to an accusation after just a greeting being ignored on FB messenger does suggest she's being a bit dramatic.
She cares. Now they have to work together and she may or may not get over it.
It sounds like OP has institutional power and is ignoring communication from a new hire out of personal spite. That is all that we can tell that she cares about, and I would care about that too.
Since when do people have a responsibility to talk to their co-workers on Facebook? Especially ones that have ghosted you in the past?
The only reason institutions seem to be involved is because the New Hire chose to make it so.