Patriotism =/= supremacism =/= revanchism, these are all very distinct categories from each other.

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It just means that you have a special relationship with your family that you don’t have with others.

So people have a special relation (akin to a family and thus maybe based on love and solidarity) to "their" nation? I disagree except for the structuring of ones life. A nation and the exclusion of others which comes from nation states esp. those who are based on blood like the German one does (till recently having German blood was enough to claim citizenship, but having lived here for 3 generations wasn't).

I understand what you mean with your arguments, they just feel too close to the talking points of the identitarians in Germany for me to be taken seriously and without rejection.